I'm all for intimacy, but I wish my husband would use the office space upstairs rather than plop all his work down on the kitchen table. You see, I like to plop all my work down on the kitchen table!
We end up having our computers about six inches apart, and along with that closeness, which can cause fights for lid space, we annoy each other. I read my writing out loud sometimes and he clears his throat more often than I like. There's more but I'll spare you. :)
But since he loves to cook, he's usually in the kitchen cooking and doing his work. Since I love to eat I'm usually in the kitchen waiting for something to come out of the oven, and I think neither of us want to be banished upstairs to the office space (that I call the litter box room.)
I have not figured out how exactly to make this work for us since he's only been working from home for a few months, but I'm looking for suggestions.
Right now I put on my headphones and crawl into my little word as I try not to notice anything around me and just get my work done -- unless the cat doesn't want me to get my work done and crawls up on the keyboard!
I could not concentrate on my work. Heck, I can't even read if I think I might be interrupted. I would give him the kitchen and let him do the cooking. I would put a desk, however small, at a window with a lovely view in my bedroom or some other room.
ReplyDeleteYour husband sounds energetic and loves to cook. I'll bet he would enjoy bringing you a tray of his latest-cooked delicious food to your bedroom for a nice visit.
I have been thinking of creating a satellite office since I do work from a lap top anyhow, I can take it with me. In the winter though, it's pretty chilly in other parts of the house so I like to stay by the fire where it is cozy.
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It definitely sounds like one of you has to make a move. i think all that closeness would get to me after awhile. Like Mary O. above said, I'd look for a pleasant alternative location for your work space.
ReplyDeleteWell I know which one of us will not move an inch...so it will have to be me LOL!
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